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Louis C.K.’s former manager, Dave Becky, has apologized for not confronting Louis C.K. after two women said he masturbated in front of them in an Aspen, Colo., hotel room in 2002.
After the incident, the women, Dana Min Goodman and Julia Wolov, began telling others what happened but said they felt threatened by Mr. Becky, who was angered that they were talking about it openly. “I now comprehend that my response was perceived as a threat to cover-up sexual misconduct,” Mr. Becky wrote. “This is not an excuse. What I did was wrong.”
Mr. Becky, who also manages Aziz Ansari, Amy Poehler and Kevin Hart, was Louis C.K.’s longtime manager until Friday, when his company, 3 Arts, announced it was dropping the comedian in the wake of allegations of sexual misconduct from five women. The women told of upsetting experiences with Louis C.K. in a New York Times report on Thursday, and Louis C.K. has admitted the stories are true.
Here is Mr. Becky’s full statement:
“I profoundly regret and am deeply sorry for not listening to and not understanding what happened to Dana and Julia. If I had, I would have taken this event as seriously as it deserved to be, and I would have confronted Louis, which would have been the right thing to do.
I am providing this context so that others do not make the same mistake I did. At that time, I heard the story third-hand, and I interpreted the conversation as two women telling a story about a sexual encounter with a then-married Louis. Albeit enormously embarrassing, in no way did I interpret the interaction as threatening or non-consensual. I misperceived the casual way the story was portrayed to me — instead I should have recognized that it must have been a mask for their unease and discomfort in the face of his detestable behavior. My intent was to seek discretion to protect what I thought was a matter of infidelity. I now comprehend that my response was perceived as a threat to cover-up sexual misconduct. This is not an excuse. What I did was wrong, and again, I am extremely sorry.
In hindsight, I was operating blindly from a one-sided place of privilege. Until last week, I knew only of this one isolated incident. Although this may sound naïve, it is true. Never once, in all of these years, did anyone mention any of the other incidents that were reported recently — I am appalled to learn of these. I have come to realize my status wielded an atmosphere where such news did not reach me, or worse yet, that it seemed such news did not matter to me. It does. It matters tremendously.
I am going to take time to reflect on this, to educate myself daily, and to strive towards a more enlightened path. I want to ensure that all voices around me are heard, and that everyone is treated respectfully and empathetically. More than anything, I want to create an environment that is a better, safer and fairer place.”